With every mama I communicate with I literally will place myself in her shoes. I look at the decision, without emotion, and try to lay out my options and choose what I would do. If faced with the same decision 5 years from now I may not make the same decision. But, I want to know that, in this particular moment in time, I gathered as much information as I could and weighed all risks to benefits, and I made a conscious choice. Not a choice out of fear, but a choice out love. No matter how small or big the decision. Put yourself in this client's shoes. You are the mother. We are her. I am every woman. Now, brainstorm. What would you do?